Wednesday, October 14, 2009


So, I feel like no one reads this anymore, but I like it's nice to just speak my mind in this seemingly infinite space that is this page.


Do you ever find yourself stuck in a situation that, even though you're not the one it's really affecting, you feel so deeply involved that you can't help but feel something tugging at your heartstrings to do something? I probably didn't explain that very well, but it's so incredibly complicated. Sometimes I just feel like I have too much sympathy and am too willing to be empathetic.

And then again, there are just some friends I would do absolutely ANYTHING for. And this is one of those situations. I wish I could take your place and do it all for you. I can't, though. But I can be there.

But as soon as I say I can be there, the reality of that statement hits me. If I'm potentially moving within the next 9-10 months, there is only so much I can do. And that kills me. I actually get a nervous feeling in my stomach (I've got it now) when I think about not being able to physically be here for my friends when they need me...especially one in particular. Call me crazy, but I'd give it all dream...if I could make this situation easier. If some people read that statement, I know I'd be admitted to a mental institution right now, but it's true. I just wish I had the power to make things better for those I care about most.

But, I guess, the bottom line is that there's only so much I can do. And even when I'm not physically here, I can still be supportive. And I'm still only a phone call away. And I still love and care about everyone as much as or more than I did before. And I would still do absolutely anything possible to help a friend.

Sometimes news takes you by surprise.
Sometimes news is shocking.
Sometimes you don't know how to react.
Sometimes the greatest shock is the greatest miracle.
Sometimes, the scariest things can be the happiest.
And sometimes...the greatest friends are far away.

There are certain people I would do absolutely ANYTHING for, and chances are that if you're reading this, you might be one of them. Sometimes, though, you just can't do anything but stand by and wait until you can do something. And that is what I'll do.

You know who you are. I'm thinking of and praying for you and your family. And to the rest, I love you dearly as well...and when the time comes, I will do everything in my power to help you, too.

Love always,

1 comment:

  1. Hey Kimberly! I stumbled across your Twitter feed and hopped on your blog this afternoon. I love it!

    I know exactly how you feel. I'm convinced that there's an "empathy gene" that some people have, and some people don't. I also know what that nervous feeling is like when a friend is sick, or just feeling the blues. And I think that's where everyone gets set apart - some feel such guilt for not being able to change the situation, and others are able to just brush it off and stay in the tunnel vision they're used to. So - I think it takes people like us to expend a lot of energy in caring (it's exhausting!) but so worth the friendships we make at the end of the day.

    Keep the posts coming! I'm reading! :)